Make or Remake my life?

Surely many of you have heard these phrases: “you have to remake your life” or “someday, you have to make your life.” Usually, those who often tell us this most are our parents, some family members, and sometimes friends.
But what do they mean by this? Every time a relationship ends, there is a divorce, or our sentimental partner died, these phrases are often said. Or when we are children and teenagers, we are often told this.

However, these phrases mean that “someday we will end up with a life partner” or “we will meet another person again and have a sentimental relationship again, we will marry or get together.”

However, why, until then, do we have to redo or do our lives? Doesn’t life happen since we’re born? Since what did we cry for the first time and say our first word? From what do we laugh, do we have dreams, goals, and talents to develop? Why should life depend on whether we have a partner or not?

Because if so, we would be omitting everything else, and we would only refer to that as the only possibility that existed in our lives. And it’s not that having a partner is wrong. Not at all! But neither should everything be in our way. Rather, it’s a part of it, and it’s also optional because there are people who don’t care about having a partner.

As long as we continue to exist, life already has meaning for everything that makes up our personality and environment. It’s like waiting for us to “happen” so that our existence is worthwhile.

It is time to slowly take away those beliefs and ideas that often hurt us and make us think wrong. Remember that you are the one who gives value to your life, and only you will know how you do in your day-to-day life.