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My ex-couple works in the same place as me. What should I do?
This is a rather controversial and interesting topic.
Having an ex in the same place where we work could make things worse, from the point of view of the person who has grief on the surface.
Some know and have managed to cope with such a situation and have no problem living with their ex in employment. But otherwise, for many, this can become a real torture to see it daily and even more so when there are still strong feelings involved.
Many recommend not having any romantic relationship with a coworker, precisely because one day you can end it, and it will be uncomfortable to have to see it every day.
But there have also been cases of success stories; that is, the only way to know if something will end well or badly is to take risks; there is no other way: just like everything in life.
So, should I stay at my work?
Before we make a hasty decision, we must take stock of our overall situation in that work. In what way? Put the “pros” and the “cons.” In due course, I did this; because I had a similar situation and discovered that, taking away from my ex, there were more things against than in favor, because it was also a place where I was not valued as a…