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My Partner Does not Trust Me; why?
Undoubtedly, trust is one of the fundamental pillars of any loving relationship. If it does not exist, everything else can be gone by tube.
Not trusting that person who is our sentimental partner can become hell; because to be questioning us every while whether “he/she is betraying us, lying to us and so on” is not at all pleasant and becomes harmful, since it poisons the relationship with multiple fights and discussions, as it makes us feel bad by being invaded of negative thoughts constantly. It should be noted that many people are so distrustful because they are very likely to have the childhood wound of “betrayal,” and let us remember that such injuries can affect our adult lives.
If your partner does not trust you or you do not trust her or him, it is time to know why this is happening.
TRAUMAS OF THE PAST.
Many people have been dragging unresolved trauma from the past; the bad thing is that when we do not solve them and make them part of our new relationships, they will only sabotage them. It is terrible to be constantly alert and paranoid that your partner will betray you or lie to you. If this is your case, go to therapy, or if you do not want it either, it is best not to have a partner until you work on yourself.
