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Negotiable and Non-Negotiable Securities

Do you know what negotiable and NON-negotiable securities are in a dating relationship?

Atelerix Creative Quill
5 min readSep 21, 2021

When we start a relationship, we all have certain expectations of the other person who has agreed to be our romantic partner. There are ways of being that person and ours, which, although we do not like or like them, do not pose any danger to the relationship and learn to cope and negotiate.

However, some other values or attitudes should not go unnoticed, as these are giving us alarms about the future of that relationship and that things can worsen over time.

So what can be negotiable and what can’t be?

There is a saying, and they have even turned it into images circulating on the web: “whoever really loves you, must accept you as you are.” However, this can bring great conflict because if that person has unhealthy attitudes that can affect us in many ways, will it be worth the risk? On the other hand, this phrase invites us to stay in our comfort zone and not work on various aspects to transform and evolve.

For example, would it be okay to agree to stay with someone who beats and humiliates us for accepting that person as he is? Of course not! Many people stay with this type of person because they have very deep attachments and…

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Atelerix Creative Quill
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