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Phrases that we Should NOT Say when Someone has Passed Away

And a Few Recommendations

Atelerix Creative Quill
4 min readSep 18, 2021

We have repeated the same lines of condolences for a long time every time we learn that someone has passed away.

We know that many of these phrases are not spoken with bad intentions, but it is time to throw them away and change them for new ones. correct and others that can be a good mind of mommy, making the person affected by the loss feel worse. , In the past, there was no thanatological education that now comes to teach us what we should say when such a situation arises.

“YOU MUST BE STRONG. " The person who has been affected by the loss of a loved one knows that from now on, his life has taken a 180° turn, and therefore, a wave of paperwork and other more complicated things can come upon him. Reminding her that “he/she must be strong” is harassing because it puts pressure on them.

In addition to that, it sounds like a ban on “you don’t have to cry,” “don’t cry and endure,” and so on. Let us remember that it is not right to prevent a person from taking out his pain; on the contrary, we must encourage him not to deprive himself.

You can say the following:

“I KNOW WHAT YOU’RE GOING THROUGH IS TERRIBLE AND COMPLICATED AND IF YOU NEED…

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Atelerix Creative Quill
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